In love with two men

June 04, 2020

Dear Pastor

I hope all is well. I have been trapped between two lovers. I am currently in a relationship with two guys. This started some time ago when I was in high school.

I fell in love with one of the guys but he got transferred and I never saw him again. But we did not end the relationship. We chatted on the phone until I no longer heard from him. I was devastated. My friends told me to move on, so I did.

I fell in love with the other guy. I love him and we were doing fine until a month ago. I saw the other guy and I was shocked. After chatting with him, we exchanged numbers and we started talking again.

Then he told me he still loved me. He asked me if I loved him. I told him no, but I lied. He said he would not stop until he gets my heart back. What should I do? I am waiting for your urgent response.


Dear C.K.,

You did not give your age, but you write as someone who is still a teenager and who does not have a clue what it means to be in love. Frankly speaking, you are not ready for a relationship.

What you need to do is try your best and go back to school and don't put men on your mind. You would lose out. The men will use you and laugh at you.

Reading your letter carefully, I can see that you are easily fooled. So if these two guys say they like you, keep that in your heart but don't let it get to your head. Otherwise, you will go mad, and mad people don't think straight.


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